從認識的那天起，我們都沒有刻意隱藏自己的過去。
第一次的相遇，是我離婚週年日的前一天，是個很容易記得得日子，巴特就是上天給我的禮物。離婚過後，從來沒有想過自己能夠遇上更好的男人。記得高庭宣判離婚生效的那天，他對我下了狠話。他說︰『我不夠好嗎？我不相信妳能找到比我更好的男人﹗』當時我心裡只是想著︰有沒有更好的男人不是重點，重要的是我可以解脫，過得比以前更好。
來了台灣，一切從頭開始，新的生活，新的人際關係。於是我的ICQ的自我介紹也改為這樣的一段話︰I’m a Malaysian girl, and I’m studying at Taiwan now. I’m really enjoyed the new life, my hobbies are reading, writing and chat with friend, and wish to be friend with you sincerely.
Taiwan是我們緣份的關鍵。巴特就是藉著Country:Taiwan搜索到我的。他告訴我那天晚上年齡30-39歲的群組沒有人在線上，於是就往下找，就這樣發現20-29那組有個唯一的我。是巧合？我想是冥冥中注定吧。
其實，他對我的new life很感興趣。我心裡想著反正這個人在地球的另一段，看來誠意不錯，跟他聊真的也不錯（這不代表我跟其他人都聊假的，只是身在台灣，對自己的過去都會有所保留，不然會惹來閒閒之輩打我xx之歹念）。我坦承自己離婚了，結果他說他也一樣。接著我們聊小孩，發現巧合的事還很多。我們在同年離婚，他的大女兒跟我同一天生日，小女兒比我女兒大一個月…………。
我們都不隱瞞自己的過去，就像朋友一樣，給予對方的支持和關懷。他知道佩佩（我的寶貝）是個腦性麻痺的小孩過後，就嘗試去找關於這類小孩的資訊，希望儘量能夠幫忙我。那時我正找尋資源，讓佩佩來台灣接受早期治療。他的誠意深深地感動了我，那時，我們只是朋友罷了。
～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～。～
Since we met, we never hide our past.
Our first meeting, a day before my anniversary of divorce, is an easy memorial date. Bart is the present which given by God. After divorced, I never thought I could find a better man. I still remember what my ex-husband told me while the court said our divorcement had been approved. He said, “Am I really not good enough for you? I don’t believe that you could find a man who better than me.” That moment, I thought: I don’t care if there has a better man but the main point is I relieved and could live better than before.
After I came to Taiwan, I restarted my life in new environment. I changed my detail in ICQ as “I’m a Malaysian girl, and I’m studying at Taiwan now. I’m really enjoyed the new life, my hobbies are reading, writing and chat with friend, and wish to be friend with you sincerely.”
Taiwan is the key of our meet. Bart found me by searching of “Country: Taiwan”. He told me there was nobody online for range of age 30-39. So he tried age 20-29 and found I was the only one who was online. What’s a coincidence, we were predestined to meet each other.
Actually he was interested to my “new life”. In my mind, he was living at another side of the earth and looked faith, it’s not bad to tell him the truth. I admitted I was divorced. Then, he told me he was the same. We started to talk about our kids and we discovered more and more coincidence between us. We divorced at the same year. His eldest daughter’s birthday is fallen at the same day with me. His youngest daughter is just one month elder than my daughter.
We didn’t hide anything from each other. We support and care each other like friend. When he knew Chin Jing – my daughter is a CP kid, he tried to find more information about CP and hoped to help me as much as he could. I was planning to bring Chin Jing to Taiwan for early treatment. I was touched by his sincere intentions, at that moment, we were just friends.
