來了台灣，一切從頭開始，新的生活，新的人際關係。於是我的ICQ的自我介紹也改為這樣的一段話︰I’m a Malaysian girl, and I’m studying at Taiwan now. I’m really enjoyed the new life, my hobbies are reading, writing and chat with friend, and wish to be friend with you sincerely.
Since we met, we never hide our past.
Our first meeting, a day before my anniversary of divorce, is an easy memorial date. Bart is the present which given by God. After divorced, I never thought I could find a better man. I still remember what my ex-husband told me while the court said our divorcement had been approved. He said, “Am I really not good enough for you? I don’t believe that you could find a man who better than me.” That moment, I thought: I don’t care if there has a better man but the main point is I relieved and could live better than before.
After I came to Taiwan, I restarted my life in new environment. I changed my detail in ICQ as “I’m a Malaysian girl, and I’m studying at Taiwan now. I’m really enjoyed the new life, my hobbies are reading, writing and chat with friend, and wish to be friend with you sincerely.”
Taiwan is the key of our meet. Bart found me by searching of “Country: Taiwan”. He told me there was nobody online for range of age 30-39. So he tried age 20-29 and found I was the only one who was online. What’s a coincidence, we were predestined to meet each other.
Actually he was interested to my “new life”. In my mind, he was living at another side of the earth and looked faith, it’s not bad to tell him the truth. I admitted I was divorced. Then, he told me he was the same. We started to talk about our kids and we discovered more and more coincidence between us. We divorced at the same year. His eldest daughter’s birthday is fallen at the same day with me. His youngest daughter is just one month elder than my daughter.
We didn’t hide anything from each other. We support and care each other like friend. When he knew Chin Jing – my daughter is a CP kid, he tried to find more information about CP and hoped to help me as much as he could. I was planning to bring Chin Jing to Taiwan for early treatment. I was touched by his sincere intentions, at that moment, we were just friends.